Wednesday, September 16, 2026

Wearing White After Labour Day? Absolutely.

That isn't me.  I'm learning to use AI and it's a lot of fun!

I’ve lost enough weight that my white pants are finally comfortable again — and I’m wearing them.

Yes, it’s after Labour Day. And yes, I can already hear that old voice in the back of my mind saying, “You can’t wear white after Labour Day.”

Well… who said so? And more importantly, why did we ever listen?

Labour Day weekend always arrives with that bittersweet feeling: summer’s unofficial farewell. The last barbecues, the final dips in the pool, and then suddenly everyone is talking about cozy sweaters, pumpkin spice, and baking season. It’s lovely, of course — but it also comes with a handful of “rules” that never made much sense.

The biggest one? The idea that white clothing must be packed away the moment September rolls in.

I’ve heard it my whole life. You probably have too. White jeans, white pants, white linen — all supposedly destined for storage until next June. But honestly, that rule is so outdated it should come with a museum plaque. Even Ree Drummond jokes about it, saying the whole “no white after Labor Day” thing is right up there with “no casseroles before Labor Day.” In other words: nonsense.

And here’s the real truth. I’m going on a cruise in less than two weeks — to warmer weather, sunshine, and sea breezes — and my white pants are coming with me. I don’t care what the calendar says. They fit, they feel good, and they make me happy. That’s reason enough.

Fashion should never be about following dusty old rules. It should be about confidence, comfort, and joy. If white makes you feel bright and fresh in September, October, or even January, wear it. Pair it with a cozy sweater, a denim jacket, or a fall scarf. White isn’t a season — it’s a mood.

So here’s my little declaration as we head into autumn: I’m keeping my white pants out, and I’m packing them for my cruise. The rule is gone, the myth is retired, and the suitcase is staying open for anything that makes me feel good.

After all, life is too short — and too colourful — to let an old fashion rule tell us what to wear.





Tuesday, September 15, 2026

Celine Dion in Paris 2026

 

On the evening of September 12, 2026, a black car pulled up outside the Plenitude Arena in Nanterre, on the western edge of Paris. Michelle Obama stepped out. She had crossed the Atlantic to attend the opening night of Cรฉline Dion's residency, her first full concert in six years. The former first lady entered the arena discreetly, according to Le Parisien, which first reported her presence. She was not alone. Oprah Winfrey was seated beside her. The two American figures took their places in the pit, on folding chairs close to the stage, not in a VIP box. Shania Twain was also in the audience. Around them, some 30,000 fans filled the arena. The crowd wore sequined dresses and glittered cheeks. Many had traveled from across Europe and beyond. Some had flown in from Tahiti. The doors had opened hours earlier. The air was warm with anticipation. Inside, a stage shaped like a rocky landscape waited. The lights dimmed. A figure in a long pink coat stepped onto the stage. The room erupted. The show had begun.
Cรฉline Dion opened with On ne change pas, a French ballad from the 1990s. She was visibly moved. Tears streamed down her face. "I promised myself I wouldn't cry," she told the crowd, according to the German Press Agency. She did not keep that promise. "Tonight, I want to sing for you, sing for myself, sing for life," she said. The performance lasted two and a half hours. She moved through her biggest hits: My Heart Will Go On, J'irai oรน tu iras, Pour que tu m'aimes encore. She sang a cover of Eurythmics' Sweet Dreams. She performed the operatic aria La Wally while snowflakes fell from the ceiling. Between songs, she spoke about the condition she lives with, a rare autoimmune disorder that causes stiffness and cramps. "I learned to live with this fragility," she said. "By living alongside it, I learned to tame it. I turned it into my strength to live." The crowd listened. The former first lady listened. The arena held the sound. The night continued.
The concert was the first of 26 shows at the Plenitude Arena, a residency scheduled to run into the following spring. The demand for tickets had been extraordinary. More than nine million fans entered a lottery for early access, according to Le Parisien. That figure surpassed the previous record in Paris, held by Taylor Swift. The arena holds roughly 30,000 people per night. Only about one in 164 lottery entrants could secure a seat. Michelle Obama was among the fortunate few. She had entered the pool, like millions of others, and she had won a place in the room. On this night, she sat in the pit, close enough to see the tears on the singer's face. When the show ended, the lights came up. The crowd filed out. The former first lady left the arena. The residency had begun. The record shows what happened next: 25 more shows, a city that had waited six years, and a singer who had kept her promise to return.

Monday, September 14, 2026

Missing My Vote This Year — And Watching From Afar

This year brings a first I never expected: I won’t be able to vote in our city election.

We leave on holidays one day before absentee ballots become available, and for the first time in my life, I’ll be sitting on the sidelines. I’ve already done my homework, I know exactly who I would vote for, and I’m still adjusting to the idea that my ballot won’t be part of the count.

Last Sunday, one of the candidates for Mayor actually came to our strata. In all my years of voting, I’ve never had a candidate show up at my door. It was a reminder of how personal and local municipal politics can be — and how much these decisions shape the neighbourhoods we live in.

A Crowded Race

We have seven people running for Mayor this time. With a field that full, it’s impossible to guess who might win — and I won’t try. I know who I would like to see in the role, but elections have a way of surprising us.

And then there’s council.

Sixty-six candidates. I think that must be a record. It certainly feels like one. It’s almost dizzying to imagine voters trying to sort through that many names, backgrounds, and priorities.

Age and Leadership

One candidate for mayor is 82 years old. He’s served twice before, though he’s not the incumbent. If elected, his term would take him to age 86. I can’t help wishing we had an age limit for roles with this level of responsibility. Leadership demands stamina, clarity, and the ability to manage a city that’s growing and changing quickly. At some point, age becomes a factor — not out of disrespect, but out of realism.

Watching From Afar

Even though I won’t be casting a ballot, I’ll be following the results closely on my computer. Elections matter, especially municipal ones. They determine how our neighbourhoods grow, how our streets feel, and whether decisions are made for the people who live here — or for developers and special interest groups.

My hope is simple: Whoever wins, let them serve with integrity, transparency, and a genuine commitment to the community.

That’s all any of us can ask for.

If anyone is looking to check out our home for cash or furniture, our cash comes with us and our furniture is old.  My 24 year old grandson will be staying in our house.  I hope his rottweiler doesn't bother our neighbours.  


Sunday, September 13, 2026

The Martha Mitchell effect


In a California hotel room in June 1972, the wife of the Attorney General of the United States was forcibly sedated to stop her from exposing the Watergate conspiracy. It would take years, and the ruin of powerful men, before history admitted she was telling the truth.

Martha Mitchell was born in 1918 in Pine Bluff, Arkansas. She was outspoken by nature, charming by reputation, and by 1972 she was one of the most recognizable political wives in Washington. Reporters loved her. She called them directly, sometimes late at night, with things she was not supposed to say.

That habit would almost get her killed.

On June 17, 1972, the night of the Watergate break-in, Martha was at the Waterfront Hotel in Newport Beach with her husband John Mitchell, who was then running Nixon's reelection campaign.  When she heard about the arrests, she called Helen Thomas, the veteran wire reporter, and told her that Nixon's people were behind it. She was going to go public.

She never got the chance to finish the call.

Her security detail, acting on orders, physically restrained her.  She was held against her will, injected with tranquilizers, and prevented from speaking to anyone for days.  She suffered a laceration on her hand during the struggle.  When she finally resurfaced, her husband and the White House did what they had already been doing: they called her unstable.  They said she was drinking.  They implied, and sometimes stated outright, that she was not to be believed.

It worked, for a while.

John Mitchell denied her account.  The press, much of it, went along with the framing. Martha was cast as the volatile wife of a serious man, someone whose calls to reporters were a source of embarrassment rather than intelligence. The coverup held, and Martha's credibility was the price it extracted.

But the Watergate investigation continued.  Reporters kept digging.  Tapes surfaced. Testimony accumulated.  And piece by piece, what Martha had said in that interrupted phone call turned out to be exactly correct.

John Mitchell was convicted of conspiracy, obstruction of justice, and perjury.  He served around 19 months in federal prison, released in 1979.  Martha and John had divorced in 1973.  She died in 1976, before the full weight of her vindication had settled.

She never saw herself properly acknowledged.

In the decades since, something quieter happened.  Psychiatrists and researchers began to document a pattern they were seeing in clinical settings: patients who reported real events, correctly, but were disbelieved and pathologized for it.  The tendency of institutions, families, and authorities to gaslight accurate witnesses into doubting themselves.

They named it the Martha Mitchell Effect.

Saturday, September 12, 2026

Rt. Hon. Jean Chretien at the 25th anniversary of 9/11 in Gander

When we visited Newfoundland and Labrador we got a real feel for the citizens of this province.  They were all so friendly and welcoming.  I'd seen the movie and Broadway play "Come from Away".  I loved them both.  I wanted to watch the 9/11 ceremony from Gander.  I put on CBC Newsworld and they broadcasted it live.  I like CBC as they always have an interpretter when they start speaking French.  

I was shocked when they invited Pete Hoekstra, the US Ambassador to Canada.  He's said some pretty nasty things about Canada.  There is a petition to expel him from our country.  I must say I thought he had an excellent speech.  No one heckled or disrespected him.  We are better than that.  He thanked the Canadian Military for liberating his parents in the Netherlands in WWII!

Jean Chrรฉtien’s speech at the 25th anniversary of 9/11, delivered at age 92, drew multiple standing ovations and was widely described as fiery, patriotic, and deeply moving.

The core of his message echoed exactly what you felt watching it:

  • “We bow to no one.”

  • “Never mistake our generosity for weakness.”

  • “Never, never mistake our kindness for softness.”

He reminded Americans — including Ambassador Pete Hoekstra, who was sitting right there — that Canada stood shoulder‑to‑shoulder with the U.S. after the attacks, invoking Article 5 of NATO and sending troops to Afghanistan.

But he also spoke plainly about the fractured political relationship between the two countries today, saying that friendship requires honesty.

The audience responded exactly as you saw: hats off, people on their feet, long applause. It was a moment of pride, resolve, and unity — very much in the spirit of Newfoundland and Labrador’s extraordinary kindness during 9/11.

We are a bilingual country but the CBC translates it.  At the very end of this video, Pete Hoekstra goes out of his way to give Jean Chrieten a hug!  I hope this event changes some minds of those in the US from trying to annex us. 


If you want to watch the entire broadcast, it's wonderful.  The music and speeches were inspiring and made you happy you live in such a wonderful country.  It is the entire live broadcast.  The actual ceremony starts at 33:30.  Enjoy and get a kleenex.




Friday, September 11, 2026

September 11 - how Canada responded

Canada could have sent a bill.  Canada could have complained.  Canada didn't.  Canada wouldn't.  Canada welcomed.  

๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐†๐š๐ง๐๐ž๐ซ was the most famous
๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐•๐š๐ง๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ received the most people
๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐‡๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐š๐ฑ received the most aircraft

On 9/11, ๐Ž๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐˜๐ž๐ฅ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ ๐‘๐ข๐›๐›๐จ๐ง ultimately diverted as many as 238 aircraft carrying over 33,000 people to Canadian airports. 

Yes. ๐˜๐๐— ๐†๐š๐ง๐๐ž๐ซ was the most famous small-airport story, but it wasn't alone.

⚠️ ๐Ÿ ๐๐”๐Œ๐๐„๐‘๐’ ๐‘๐„๐€๐‹๐‹๐˜ ๐’๐“๐€๐๐ƒ ๐Ž๐”๐“.

▪︎ ๐˜๐•๐‘ - ๐•๐š๐ง๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ received the most people: more than 8,500 passengers aboard 33 diverted flights. 

▪︎ ๐˜๐‡๐™ - ๐‡๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐š๐ฑ received the most aircraft
- NAV CANADA says 47 aircraft & 7,300 people 
- Transport Canada counts 40 flights & 8,800 guests 

Across the country, Transport Canada specifically notes that smaller airports suddenly had to accommodate aircraft and passenger volumes they were never designed to handle. 

๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐€๐“๐‹๐€๐๐“๐ˆ๐‚ ๐‚๐€๐๐€๐ƒ๐€
Across Newfoundland and Labrador alone, 78 diverted aircraft carrying more than 13,000 passengers and crew had landed by 5 p.m. on September 11 

▪︎ ๐˜๐‰๐“ ๐’๐ญ๐ž๐ฉ๐ก๐ž๐ง๐ฏ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ž, ๐๐‹ welcomed 8 aircraft, and >1,700 people - to an airport that normally screened only about 37 passengers per day - almost 50 times its normal passenger volume.

▪︎ ๐˜๐˜๐‘ ๐‡๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฒ ๐•๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ž๐ฒ-๐†๐จ๐จ๐ฌ๐ž ๐๐š๐ฒ, ๐๐‹ was the first place NAV CANADA began directing the transatlantic aircraft that couldn't turn back. 

▪︎ ๐˜๐ƒ๐… ๐ƒ๐ž๐ž๐ซ ๐‹๐š๐ค๐ž, ๐๐‹ welcomed a private aircraft that was diverted.

▪︎ ๐˜๐๐Œ ๐Œ๐จ๐ง๐œ๐ญ๐จ๐ง, ๐๐ received 10 aircraft, while...

▪︎ ๐˜๐˜๐“ ๐’๐ญ. ๐‰๐จ๐ก๐ง'๐ฌ welcomed 21.

‼️๐€๐ง๐ ๐“๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐“๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž ๐–๐š๐ฌ ๐‡๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐š๐ฑ
On the afternoon of September 11 itself, ๐‡๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐š๐ฑ ๐’๐ญ๐š๐ง๐Ÿ๐ข๐ž๐ฅ๐ ๐ˆ๐ง๐ญ๐ž๐ซ๐ง๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ ๐€๐ข๐ซ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ was reporting 44 aircraft and an early estimate of 6,000 passengers, illustrating how the numbers evolved.

๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐“๐‡๐„ ๐๐Ž๐‘๐“๐‡
▪︎ ๐˜๐—๐˜ ๐–๐ก๐ข๐ญ๐ž๐ก๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž, ๐˜๐Š received 2 aircraft
▪︎ ๐˜๐™๐… ๐˜๐ž๐ฅ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ๐ค๐ง๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž in the Northwest Territories - 1. 

๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐“๐‡๐„ ๐–๐„๐’๐“
Several western Canadian airports received substantial numbers:
▪︎ ๐˜๐•๐‘ - ๐„๐๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐จ๐ง (6)
▪︎ ๐˜๐˜๐‚ - ๐‚๐š๐ฅ๐ ๐š๐ซ๐ฒ (13) 
▪︎ ๐˜๐–๐† - ๐–๐ข๐ง๐ง๐ข๐ฉ๐ž๐  (15)
▪︎ ๐˜๐•๐‘ - ๐•๐š๐ง๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ - (33) 8,500 passengers 

๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐‚๐„๐๐“๐‘๐€๐‹ ๐‚๐€๐๐€๐ƒ๐€
▪︎ ๐˜๐˜๐™ ๐“๐จ๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง (14)
▪︎ ๐˜๐Œ๐— ๐Œ๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฅ ๐Œ๐ข๐ซ๐š๐›๐ž๐ฅ (10)
▪︎ ๐˜๐”๐‹ ๐Œ๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฅ ๐ƒ๐จ๐ซ๐ฏ๐š๐ฅ (7) (๐˜•๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜›๐˜ณ๐˜ถ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ถ)
▪︎ ๐˜๐‡๐Œ ๐‡๐š๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐ญ๐จ๐ง (4)

๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐ ๐˜ ๐“ ๐‡ ๐„ ๐ ๐” ๐Œ ๐ ๐„ ๐‘ ๐’
Halifax (47)
Gander, NL (38 aircraft)
St. John's (21)
Winnipeg (15)
Calgary (13)
Moncton (10)
Happy Valley-Goose Bay, NL (5-7)
Edmonton (6)
Hamilton (4)
Whitehorse, YK (2)
Deer Lake, NL (1)
Yellowknife, NT (1)

๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐ˆ๐“'๐’ ๐€ ๐‚๐€๐๐€๐ƒ๐ˆ๐€๐ ๐“๐‡๐ˆ๐๐†
Gander wasn't an isolated act of Canadian hospitality.

Volunteer organizations, churches, emergency services, schools, businesses, municipal governments and everyday folks across the country mobilized to look after stranded passengers from around the world.

"Why?," people asked, genuinely surprised by the overwhelming response.

๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜บ?

Because ๐ฐ๐ž ๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐.
Because ๐ฐ๐ž ๐œ๐š๐ง.
Because ๐ฐ๐ž ๐š๐ฅ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ.

๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐ˆ๐ญ'๐ฌ ๐š ๐‚๐š๐ง๐š๐๐ข๐š๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ . ❤️


Thursday, September 10, 2026

Luba Tryszynska - an inspiring lady!


At Auschwitz, they took away her three-year-old son. A year later, she saved 44 children marked for death.

In January 1943, Luba Tryszynska arrived at the Auschwitz concentration camp alongside her husband Hersch and their little boy Isaac. 

She was a Polish Jewish woman whose whole world revolved around her family. On the cold selection platform, Nazi guards tore the toddler from her arms. 

Little Isaac was sent straight to his death. 

Shortly after, her husband was separated from her and killed.  Luba was left entirely alone in the darkness of the camp, forced to live with an agonizing question. 

Why was she still alive when everyone she loved was gone?

In late 1944, the Nazis transferred Luba to the Bergen-Belsen camp.  It was a place where starvation, freezing cold, and diseases killed hundreds of people every day. 

In December of that year, something unusual happened near her barracks. 

Dozens of abandoned children suddenly appeared. 

They were the young sons and daughters of Dutch Jewish families who had been split apart during transport.  The adults had been sent away to other camps, leaving the tiny children alone in the freezing mud without protection, food, or anyone to look after them.

Luba heard their soft crying in the dark and went outside to look.  Standing in the cold were children far too young to understand why the world had abandoned them. 

She could have easily turned away and closed her door.  In Bergen-Belsen, trying to help anyone else meant risking your own survival. 

Finding a single scrap of bread was nearly impossible, and hiding dozens of kids could mean immediate execution.

Instead, she opened the door and brought them inside.

"Come in, you are safe with me now," Luba whispered as she gathered the shivering toddlers into her arms.

With the help of a few other women in the barracks, she began searching everywhere for extra food.  She shared her own microscopic rations, washed the children whenever she found clean water, and hid them whenever the guards walked past. 

The little ones quickly learned to stay completely silent when danger was near, even when hunger was tearing at their stomachs.

Luba gave them much more than shelter and physical protection.  She gave them maternal warmth and hope. Years later, when people asked her why she risked everything for strangers, she explained her choice with a simple truth.

"I gave them my love because I had lost my own son," she said.

On April 15, 1945, British soldiers arrived and liberated Bergen-Belsen. They discovered around 60,000 survivors living in horrific conditions, alongside thousands of unburied bodies.  But inside one of the wooden barracks, they found Luba and her small army of young children. 

They were weak, thin, and exhausted, but they were breathing. Out of the 46 children Luba had taken under her wing, 44 survived until the day of liberation.

After the war ended, Luba personally accompanied several of the children back to the Netherlands before eventually moving to the United States to rebuild her life. 

For decades, she spoke very little about what happened in the camp. Then, in 1995, an incredible reunion took place in Amsterdam. Thirty-one of those saved children returned to see her again. 

They were full-grown adults now, many of them parents and grandparents. 

Some learned for the very first time that day that their childhood camp companions had also survived. The city presented Luba with a medal for her humanitarian bravery, but her real reward was sitting right in front of her.

Luba Tryszynska-Frederick passed away in 2009 at the age of 91. Her little Isaac never came back, but dozens of children walked out of Bergen-Belsen alive because a grieving mother chose to open her heart when everything else was lost.

As Luba looked around the room in Amsterdam, seeing bright smiles, warm hugs, and newborn babies held by the adults she once sheltered in the dark, she knew her love had won. 

The darkness of Bergen-Belsen could never erase the light of forty-four living legacies who grew up to fill the world with love.

Standing among the thriving families that existed only because she cared, Luba smiled through her tears and knew her tiny Isaac was never truly forgotten. Every joyful laugh from every grandchild in that room was a sweet, eternal victory of love over hatred.

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**I just checked and the book not avaliable in the Surrey Public Library**

**It was British and Canadian soldiers that liberated Bergen-Belsen.  My uncle, Bill Parker, was one of the Canadians who was part of the liberation.  According to his daughter, Dale, the sights he saw haunted him for the rest of his life. **




Wearing White After Labour Day? Absolutely.

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