The British Royals and Christmas

I wish she would smile in her pictures, but this is recent

The British royals are sticklers for protocol, so you can bet that they’ve got plenty of time-honored traditions that rule Christmas. One is that only members of the royal family and their spouses are invited to Sandringham, where Her Majesty celebrates the holiday. For decades, attendance has been mandatory, but now William and Kate split their Christmases between the royals and the Middletons.  It was just announced Meghan will accompany Harry to Sandringham.  She will be the first fiancé to be invited before getting married into the royal family.  Kate and William went to the Middeltons the Christmas before they married.

This isn’t Canada. Anyone who has ever watched Downton Abbey knows the Brits wish each other a “Happy Christmas.”

Meghan will find herself on the sidelines of the traditional Christmas Eve soccer game where her fiancé and future brother-in-law compete against each other for charity as they head up two teams comprised of family members, villagers, and staff.

There is a Christmas Eve tea at 4 p.m. in the White Drawing Room. Since Meghan has already met the Queen, she has probably already been schooled on the proper way to hold a tea cup. But just in case she’s forgotten: royals hold a teacup handle with their thumb and index figure and using their middle finger to gold the cup in place. It’s just as uncomfortable as it sounds.  After tea, gag gifts (the cheesier the better—one year Kate reportedly gave Harry a “Grow Your Own Girlfriend” kit) are given out in the Red Drawing Room where the staff has already laid them out on trestle tables (not under the tree). Prince Philip already has a pepper mill that lights up, so she’ll have to be creative.

The royal family and their children attend mass at the church of St. Mary Magdalene in Norfolk every Christmas morning. There is a private service where the Queen receives communion first. Then, at 11 a.m. the family makes the traditional walk to church together. Only the Queen arrives by car and is accompanied by a different royal every year. Pregnant Kate is an odds-on favorite to score a ride this Christmas.

Royal women wear conservative coats and, of course, hats to church. The most stylish thing Kate has ever worn on Christmas Day was over-the-knee boots. Princess Diana once incurred criticism for wearing a bright purple coat and matching wide-brimmed hat. “This isn’t a fashion show,” reportedly sniped Princess Margaret at the time.

The Queen’s menus are always in French, regardless of the occasion, and Christmas Day luncheon is no exception.

They won’t be tuning into the “Suits” marathon, but in the afternoon the royal family gathers to watch Her Majesty’s televised Christmas message to the nation. The tradition began in 1932 with her grandfather, George V. The King, who broadcasted his Christmas address via radio from a room in Sandringham, and the Queen, who delivered her first address in 1957, continues the tradition today.  If you are interested in hearing her message, the CBC is broadcasting it at noon,