Monday, September 22, 2025

Cruise ship gratuities

I am not a fan of prepaid tips.  I have never asked for them to be removed, but I like to give my room steward and dining room waiter and assistant waiter, a tip envelope with a nice message and well earned tip.  I would always tip more than what the cruise ship takes off.  I will always give ship employees an additional tip when it's earned!  I had a friend who always tipped the room steward on day 1.  He always received fabulous service!  Always read your receipts for spa or a service as the usually automatically add 18% and then have a line in small print, for an additional tip!   
Here are 10 specific tipping mistakes to avoid on a cruise:
  1. Forgetting to Budget for Automatic Gratuities: 
    Most cruise lines charge a daily gratuity, which should be factored into your overall budget. 
  2. Paying Extra When Service Charges Are Included: 
    You are typically charged an 18% gratuity on drinks and spa services, so avoid paying another tip unless it's for truly exceptional service. 
  3. Tipping the Wrong People: 
    Avoid tipping ship officers or entertainment staff, as they are not part of the tipping pool and receiving a tip may be awkward. 
  4. Inconsistent Tipping: 
    Don't leave a blank line on your receipt for the daily gratuity and sign without reading carefully, as you may inadvertently double-tip. 
  5. Giving Gifts Instead of Cash: 
    Cash tips are more practical and useful for crew members than gifts like trinkets or mugs, though a nice note of thanks is always appreciated. 
  6. Not Tipping for Port Day Services: 
    Be prepared to tip shore excursion tour guides, drivers, and baggage handlers at the port for their services. 
  7. Ignoring Special Service Requests: 
    While you're not obligated to tip for minor requests, cash tips are a great way to show appreciation for outstanding service that goes above and beyond. 
  8. Expecting to Tip the Same Way Everywhere: 
    Tipping customs can vary; be aware that daily charges may not cover specific services like specialty coffee or ice cream. 
  9. Not Tipping for Exceptional Service: 
    Even if you've paid daily gratuities, a cash tip for a crew member who has provided truly exceptional service is always appropriate. 
  10. Tipping with Large Bills: 
    Make sure to have smaller bills on hand for cash tips, as it can be awkward for a crew member to provide change for a large denomination. 



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